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Understanding the Basics of Headstones
Before you start the selection process, it's important to understand the basic types of headstones available. Traditionally, headstones come in three main categories: upright, slant and flat.
Upright headstones are vertical slabs that stand prominently above the ground. These can vary widely in height and design, offering many customization options. Slants also stand above the ground but are typically shorter than a traditional upright headstone, with the die having a slant to their design. Conversely, flat markers lie flush with the ground and present a more understated appearance.
For example, a standard companion upright headstone might reach up to 48 inches tall, while a slant will likely fall between 20-30 inches tall. Flat markers typically spans 24-36 inches in width. Knowing these differences will help you choose what suits your memorial needs best.
Consider Your Loved One’s Personality
When selecting a headstone, reflect on your loved one's personality and interests. Did they have a hobby, a passion, or a belief that defined them? Including symbols, emblems, or quotes that resonate can create a heartfelt tribute.
For instance, if they loved gardening, you might choose a design featuring flowers or plants. If they were a veteran, the emblem of their branch of the military could be appropriate. Personal touches can evoke memories for visitors and keep their spirit alive. According to a survey, 75% of families choose to personalize their loved one's headstone in some way.
Material Matters
The material you choose for a headstone impacts both its appearance and longevity. Common materials include granite, bronze and occasionally marble.
Granite: The most popular choice, known for its durability, variety of colors, and weather resistance. It lasts for generations.
Bronze: Known for its exceptional longevity, bronze can create elegant plaques that withstand harsh weather conditions.
Marble: Known for their elegance, beauty, and timeless appeal. Marble has a natural, luxurious beauty with its unique veining and smooth finish. While marble is not as hard as granite, it is still a durable material that can withstand the test of time when properly maintained.
Size and Shape
The size and shape of the headstone are crucial for how much information or design you can include. Standard sizes vary, but a larger stone allows for more engraving options. Shapes can range from traditional serpentine forms to unique designs that echo your loved one’s style.
Be sure to check the cemetery's guidelines, as some places have regulations regarding the size and style of headstones.
Budgeting for the Headstone
Setting a budget is a key step in this process. Headstone prices can vary significantly based on materials, sizes, and customization options.
For example, simple flat markers can start around $2000, while intricately designed upright stones might be closer to $8000 - $10,000.
Engraving and Personalization
Engraving provides a chance to express your sentiments. Common choices include names, significant dates, short phrases, or meaningful quotes.
Think about the length of the text and its readability. Short, impactful phrases often resonate more than lengthy inscriptions. An example might be a simple phrase like "Forever In Our Hearts" or "Together Forever." If uncertain, ask family members for ideas, as they may suggest words or memories that could guide your choice.
Choosing a Design
The design of the headstone can authentically represent your loved one. From traditional carvings to contemporary graphics, the options are wide-ranging.
Some families prefer classic designs like crosses or flowers, while others might go for more modern representations like symbols of a hobby or talent. Consulting with a professional designer can help you visualize and finalize a design that honors your loved one appropriately.
Check Local Regulations
Every cemetery has its own rules regarding headstone placement and design. Before proceeding, make sure that your memorial company checks with the cemetery administration to understand permissible options. This ensures your chosen design complies with local regulations, preventing any last-minute edits.
Finding a Reputable Supplier
Once you have clarified your needs and budget, it’s time to search for a reliable memorial supplier. Look for online reviews, ask friends or family for recommendations, and explore local directories to find reputable providers.
Don’t hesitate to ask questions and share your vision; a good memorial company will not only be knowledgeable about their products but also empathize with your situation, offering guidance throughout the selection process.
Finalizing Your Choices
After evaluating materials and designs, it’s time to make your final choices. Double-check every detail of the engraving and options before placing the order. Your memorial company should provide you with a drawing for your approval prior to the design being finalized at the quarry.
Once you’ve confirmed your order, you will receive a approximate production and installation timeline. Keep organized with notes and copies of agreed-upon designs to prevent any confusion later.
Reflecting on the Journey
Selecting the perfect headstone is a deeply personal journey that can bring comfort during a difficult time. By considering your loved one’s personality, choosing suitable materials, and adding unique touches, you can create a lasting tribute reflecting their life and the impact they had on those around them.
As you navigate this process, take the time to reflect and make decisions honoring your loved one’s memory. Every detail contributes to ensuring their spirit continues to inspire love and remembrance for future generations.
Ultimately, the perfect headstone is more than just stone; it’s a memorial of love, memories, and a bond that lasts a lifetime.
Since 2010, Gofus Memorials has been Pottstown's local memorial and monument company, making memorial purchases accessible for everyone. We offer custom memorials through a personalized design process, and our Value Select line provides premium granite memorials at budget-friendly prices. Visit our design center at 2015 N. Charlotte Street, Pottstown, PA, or our website at www.gofusmemeorials.com and see all that we have to offer.